To Paul

Monogamy has been enforced on people long years ago not only in para-legal administerial matters, but culturally. We all have been brainwashed to understand monogamy as a morality law, and not as what it is - an attack on personal freedom of humanity. Forced monogamy never has been legal. Love is legal, and love is in fact legally forced upon people, and the more love you have, the better.

But the brainwashing was very powerful, and many people fall to doubts whether they will find happiness in multiple relationships at once. In fact, more than that they are simply doubting whether it will be physically possible to take part in many relationships at once.

We are all people impoverished by political decisions, and we lost touch with normality which is happiness. Days are not work - that's the law two under the Constitution, and Life is for leisure - that's the law three under the Constitution. And time for things is always as long as you need it to be, within a day or an hour - that's the words of Albert Einstein. Our contemporary life is slavery for bread, and so we forgot what it is to live normally. Time will really be for every partner and friend you will want to accompany, even for thousands hours with thousand of people in one day. That's what time really is, and there are other wonderfulities of physics and nature which together allow always for happiness and freedom. Nature never enslaves people, it always offers freedom of life, and therefore you and your wife will find physical possibilities to spend time in your own company and with other people as well, and feel satisfied in every of your relationships.

I really think that the reason for your wife's feelings is the impossibility to imagine a happy normal life, because all the world's population has been enslaved decades ago into a horrible forced fate of work and physical efforts and obligations. But if you can not imagine now what it will be like, to lead a free humane life, just believe that it will be free and humane, and therefore will fulfill all your wishes, even if they seem to contradict each other.

In a lifestyle that was forced upon us, a lifestyle of work and home comebacks, and illnesses and tiredness, monogamy truely seems as the most comfortable way of marriage, and that's why the brainwashing done to us all was so successful. The world rulers prepared for us such a world, that we feel too tired to think about more than one person in a marriage, and we feel more secure through monogamic imagery. This is really a view of life imposed on us by artificially created world of forced work and brutality of everyday events.

Agata