To Peter
This is not such an odd case, the lack of sexual life. Nowadays most people don't have it. Mostly due to physical loneliness, separation with marital partners, separation from potential attractive lovers. However it is a social problem, sex nowadays. We are flooded with sexual imagery in all media, and all the sex talk of public lifestyle press is an effect of immaturity. Virgin teenagers have for so long propagated their visions of sex to the mass public, that we as society lost the real definition and notion of sex. The sex propagated in media nowadays is in fact a crime. It is rapistic, abusive, and above all insulting to humanity. The sexual propaganda is always done by inexperienced persons and disgusts with machine descriptions of human body and human feelings. So because of that, most of people don't know these days, how to understand the word "sex", and how to envision own sexual life, and in fact the more mature is a person, the more confusing is the topic of sex for them.
Another reason for lack of determined sexual wants is bad health and bad life conditions. Illnesses and difficult straining everyday life influence our sexual libido in either surplus or reduced way. And physical diseases and strains cause changes in sexual tastes, which can differ from one life situation to another.
If your sexual life is non-existing, that may mean that you don't have either a real romantic partner, or real humane life conditions. Lack of a romantic partner is also an antihumane living situation. But sex is not partnership, in fact. Sexual life is own sexual wants and they actually do not have anything to do with a partner per se. Romantic partners are not for sex. Sex is individual life, and not always is wanted to be shared with another person. And if sex is a troubling or annoying subject now, if it is a boring thing nowadays, or tiring, then it is all right to resign from it for the time being. Sexuality is in fact always spontaneous, very dependent on our life characteristics, on our current life aims, on our current life needs, and so what is now does not have to be the same in the future. You can not ever plan future sex, in fact, so do focus on your present. Always it is wise and mature to welcome changes in life, and this change into lack of interest and lack of decisions about own sexuality is a current life state, which obviously is not eternal. Perhaps you are preoccupied with this topic because you are undergoing a development which will lead you to new interests and new wants in sexuality and elsewhere. So maybe it would be good not to get frustrated about it and be at ease with your sexual needs. Sexuality always reflects individuality, and self-progress which we all undergo throughout life may often cause changes in the state of own sexual affairs.
And one more thing, sex is always for pleasure. So even the state of sexual disinterest is for pleasure. Perhaps what you need is what you need.
Agata
Another reason for lack of determined sexual wants is bad health and bad life conditions. Illnesses and difficult straining everyday life influence our sexual libido in either surplus or reduced way. And physical diseases and strains cause changes in sexual tastes, which can differ from one life situation to another.
If your sexual life is non-existing, that may mean that you don't have either a real romantic partner, or real humane life conditions. Lack of a romantic partner is also an antihumane living situation. But sex is not partnership, in fact. Sexual life is own sexual wants and they actually do not have anything to do with a partner per se. Romantic partners are not for sex. Sex is individual life, and not always is wanted to be shared with another person. And if sex is a troubling or annoying subject now, if it is a boring thing nowadays, or tiring, then it is all right to resign from it for the time being. Sexuality is in fact always spontaneous, very dependent on our life characteristics, on our current life aims, on our current life needs, and so what is now does not have to be the same in the future. You can not ever plan future sex, in fact, so do focus on your present. Always it is wise and mature to welcome changes in life, and this change into lack of interest and lack of decisions about own sexuality is a current life state, which obviously is not eternal. Perhaps you are preoccupied with this topic because you are undergoing a development which will lead you to new interests and new wants in sexuality and elsewhere. So maybe it would be good not to get frustrated about it and be at ease with your sexual needs. Sexuality always reflects individuality, and self-progress which we all undergo throughout life may often cause changes in the state of own sexual affairs.
And one more thing, sex is always for pleasure. So even the state of sexual disinterest is for pleasure. Perhaps what you need is what you need.
Agata
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